Do you ever feel like you are stuck in between where you are and where you want to be?
You are doing everything you can for your Art, and you know you just have to STICK it out, and yet, you want to yell out,
When will I GET THERE?
We can have such a clear vision of our success, but the journey can be downright exhausting.
Could we just skip to the raving fans and thriving career?
Wouldn’t that be AMAZING!
But since this is not our reality, the question arises, what helps?
When we are feeling stuck…..what is there?
Back in early July, I found myself in excruciating pain. My right shoulder was killing me, and what I would normally think was a tight knot, wasn’t going away.
Something was wrong.
I soon found myself staring at a large x-ray in my chiropractor’s office, with the diagnosis of swelling in my disks, arthritis, and my skull at a 9 degree angle off from center.
I had injured my neck, and now had to go into treatment.
And stop dancing.
I’ve always been a good patient, and showed up for all my adjustments. I started to see improvements quickly, and after two months, started taking yoga again. It was feeling so good to move my body, and then I pulled a muscle in my back.
And was back at square one.
Still no dancing.
It took another month of recovery before I could take class. When I walked back into the studio, I was both excited and scared. This was the longest time I had taken off from dancing in my whole LIFE.
I was shaky…..I was off balance, but I was there.
In the coming weeks, it was frustrating. I didn’t have full range of motion, and it felt so strange to be in dance class, my place of joy and expression, and NOT be able to fully let loose.
My back was still tight, my neck still tight, and I felt like I was managing it all.
And I didn’t WANT to manage it…I wanted to just DANCE.
Have you ever felt like this? Constricted in your Art?
Dance hasn’t been my place of safety and conservation…it’s been my place of FREEDOM!
One week, we did a fast combo, and I found myself hunched over, desperately trying to get in enough air. My stamina was in the toilet…..class was feeling HARD. I was really questioning if I would ever feel the same in my body again.
I wanted to feel strong again.
But, with each week, it got slowly better. I was still going for my chiropractic treatment, and feeling my neck loosen, my back widen….
Incrementally, I could feel the change.
Last week, we learned this really fast combo. As we learned the steps, I felt full range of motion. I was feeling alive and strong, and having a blast. I had no idea what the song was, but the movement was so much fun!
And then my teacher turned on the song…and I grinned ear to ear as the familiar guitar strum reminded me of my early teenage days….George Michael singing on my Sony Walkman:
Becomes an ocean
Before you throw my heart back on the floor
Oh baby I reconsider
My foolish notion
Well I need someone to hold me
But I wait for something more
Unh I gotta faith
Because I gotta to have faith, faith, faith
I gotta to have faith, faith, faith
And then I danced…..
Five months after walking into the doctor’s office, I danced.
What does Faith mean to you?
Is it a part of your Art?
I see so many Artists struggle because they are stuck in their circumstances. They can’t see PAST it. They are disconnected from a larger picture.
The picture of their vision
The picture of their audience
The reason WHY they came to their Art in the first place.
What DO you have Faith in?
If we are going to take our work to a larger audience, we need to realize we are larger than our challenges.
And I get it, it can be deeply isolating when you are in pain and struggling. I felt so self conscious being in dance class and falling out of turns, and doubled over from exhaustion. But I kept showing up, each week.
If the only reason you are doing your Art is confined to your Ego, you will suffer again and again.
We ALL face challenges along our path,
We don’t have control over people. There is a letting go here.
So, what can we CREATE and NOURISH to get back on the dance floor and be strong?
And this is personal TO you.
Two years ago, I interviewed four successful Artists that are dear friends. They were at the top of their field, in choreography, performance, teaching and writing. They were on Broadway, large films, and turning down work.
The common thread with them all?
Faith in their Art
Faith in their audience
Faith in the larger picture of what ART actually is doing FOR themselves AND the world
You may be shaky and off balance in the process, but tap into something larger, and find the support that FEEDS you.
We are stronger together.
Photography: Caitlin Cannon Photography